I know you’re busy, but I really need an older woman I trust to give me some advice and counsel. I was wondering if it might be possible for us to get together? Continue Reading …
Resources by Topic: Friendships & Mentoring
Friendship infected with idolatry. It happens far too often. Continue Reading …
Here are three Trojan horses that are attacking the depth and quality of our relationships, leaving many of us disconnected in a connected world. Continue Reading …
Whether you're heading back to school in a few weeks or your turned your tassel long ago, here are thirty-five truths you can take to the bank. Continue Reading …
We cannot glorify God alone; we cannot live for His glory alone. We need each other! Continue Reading …
Dannah shares a personal story of struggle and reconciliation. Continue Reading …
We must cultivate in our sphere of influence—our homes, neighborhoods, workplaces, churches—spiritual daughters who in turn can pass the Truth on. Continue Reading …
When I graduated college, I floundered for a while. No one had warned me that I wouldn't always have a group of friends just like me. Continue Reading …
Staying disconnected has the power to do much more than simply make us feel lonely. It may just be what the enemy uses to prey upon you and bring you down. Continue Reading …
Mentoring: It isn't as daunting as you might think! Continue Reading …
She needed me to call back to her, to tell her she'd find Jesus in her journey, and that He was worth every penny, every tear, every effort expended. Continue Reading …
Are you letting your friendships simmer on the back burner? Continue Reading …
In a culture obsessed with feeling good, we've been raised with the idea that our self-esteem should be fed into. This is not the formula that Jesus modeled. Continue Reading …
The most important way you can disciple others is by enjoying Christ yourself in such an irresistible way that your enjoyment becomes contagious. Continue Reading …
Almost two years ago, the team at Revive Our Hearts approached me about blogging for a new site, www.LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com. . . Continue Reading …
Erin and her friends unite around another friend at the end of her rope. Do you have a "facedown friend"? Continue Reading …
One of the most inspiring aspects of Elisabeth is that she lived as a true woman not just in the "famous" moments of her life, but also throughout the ordinary moments of everyday. Continue Reading …
Do you have friends who point you to truth? Friends who offer the comfort of God's grace when you are hurting? Continue Reading …
Is it humanly possible to truly love someone who has hurt you? Continue Reading …
I always said that if Linda had been different, we could have been the best of friends. But she always seemed to have a wall up, and to keep me at arm’s length. Continue Reading …
The Lord’s been teaching me a lot about dealing with “toads” (difficult people) from the life of Moses--a man who was surrounded by them! Continue Reading …
You can have a huge impact on the next generation. You can be a truth speaker to the young women around you who need it so desperately. Continue Reading …
Instead of avoiding conflict, learn how to resolve it biblically and lovingly with these four pointers. Continue Reading …
Whenever I spend time with these women, I always leave with a greater appreciation for all they’ve taught me. Continue Reading …
We look at edited, one dimensional images of others and make assumptions, don't we? Let's consider how our minds and hearts process the images that others post. Continue Reading …
Chances are you have some difficult relationships in your life. If so, this post is for you. Continue Reading …
Lessons Carolyn learned the hard way at work . . . Continue Reading …
Here's a glimpse of another type of women's ministry that doesn't require any formal training, just the willingness to share out of your own life experiences. Continue Reading …
With more than two decades experience as a pastor's wife, I am convinced that women are in desperate need of discipleship. Continue Reading …
This vibrant woman had devoted her life to “Titus2ing”—intentionally coming alongside younger women to help them walk in the ways of Jesus. Continue Reading …
Billy, my husband, crawled into the tunnel and made it about halfway through before he began his Pooh Bear imitation. Continue Reading …
The girl in the pew in front of you is wearing a skirt so short it makes you blush. What next? Continue Reading …
As a young woman preparing for marriage, I kept wondering, Where are all the little old, godly women who can help me get ready for this? . . . Continue Reading …
I needed to find other women like me to befriend. Same ideas. Same hobbies . . . not too much to ask, right? A few months later, I was making minimal progress. Continue Reading …
A simple principle helpful in dealing with difficult people is, I am not responsible for what others do to me, but for my own reactions and responses to others. Continue Reading …
Does anyone in your life have permission to get in your face in a Galatians 6:1–2 kind of way? Continue Reading …
We can keep on claiming the mantra of the misfit, or we can grab onto the truth that we do fit in--with Christ. Continue Reading …
It’s an unpredictable and unfulfilling way to live when you depend on the approval of others. Continue Reading …
Drink in encouragement from this summary of Desiring God’s Bethlehem 2016 Conference for Pastors and Church Leaders. Continue Reading …
How do we glean gold from godly women? By asking great questions. Continue Reading …
From behind podiums and computer screens, in kitchens and nurseries, at committee meetings and in foyers, we set a tone for our church that affects everyone—including our youngest members. Continue Reading …
What does Christ-centered discipleship look like? Kelly Needham shares three helpful metaphors to shape our mentoring relationships. Continue Reading …
You weren’t meant to sit alone in the spectator’s section. You don’t even have to be an Olympic sprinter to run this race. It’s our race to run—step by step, life to life. Continue Reading …
At what point am I the older woman other women desire to learn from? Continue Reading …
Older women in the faith, do you recognize the vital importance of your influence and example? Whom could you make room for in your life to guide toward maturity? Continue Reading …
One way the church fulfills the Great Commission is to equip spiritually mature women to disciple other women. Continue Reading …
When women live out the beauty of the gospel together, they cultivate a life-giving culture in the church that honors God’s Word. Continue Reading …
Your action and obedience may be what God uses to bring about change in someone’s life. Continue Reading …
The goal of mentoring is to know Christ in a more intimate way through the benefit and blessing of walking purposefully alongside a more mature believer. Continue Reading …
Little did I know that God was going to do something at a women’s event that would impact me eternally: God was about to move in and provide me with the gift of a true friend. Continue Reading …
It’s time to stop avoiding our sisters in Christ because they possess what we’re longing for. Continue Reading …
What do we do in mentoring? We encourage, comfort, and challenge women to follow what Scripture says. It is as simple as that. And we mentor for one ultimate goal . . . Continue Reading …
Not one single woman is ever totally available, totally free from complications and trials, totally strong to lean upon. Nonetheless, we are designed and called to lean upon one another. Continue Reading …
Why we need Titus 2 intergenerational, mentoring relationships. Continue Reading …
Years ago, Nancy received a letter from a man who faithfully listens to the Revive Our Hearts programs—a resource God used to renew his heart. Continue Reading …
How can you tell if a mentoring relationship is beginning to veer off into the ditch of neediness? Continue Reading …
When discipleship and real life meet, it’s a whole lot more than mere Bible study. Continue Reading …
I said “yes” to teaching biblical womanhood to the next generation of true women, and so can you! Continue Reading …
Women living out the gospel make the truth visible and beautiful to others, because they see Christ in us, and they see the gospel changing us. Continue Reading …
We can slip into error if we don’t study a passage fully. Here are two “ditches” to avoid when studying Titus 2:3-5. Continue Reading …
We’ve got the help you need to kickstart the mentoring journey of a lifetime! Continue Reading …
Are you ready for a mentoring friendship, but uncertain how to begin or what mistakes to avoid? Read on . . . Continue Reading …
Mentoring can happen anytime, anywhere. Here’s a creative collection of practical ideas to water and grow a mentoring friendship. Continue Reading …
Mentoring is an intersection of busy, messy lives. It happens best when we offer our priorities, schedules, and weaknesses to God. Continue Reading …
Mentoring is modeling how to depend God in the midst of our weaknesses, struggles, and unanswered questions. Continue Reading …
Living a Titus 2 lifestyle is essential for women, and for churches, to thrive. It’s an investment with eternal rewards. Are you willing to take a risk? Continue Reading …
We need one another. We depend on one another. We bless one another with our gifts. Continue Reading …
We’re called to not only love some of our fellow brothers and sisters but to love each and every one. Continue Reading …
Sure, all Christians need discipleship. But how does the pastor’s wife fit in? Continue Reading …
If you’ve ever felt frustrated leading Girls Ministry, adjusting your leadership style might keep you from quitting. Continue Reading …
Rebuke stings. But it also corrects and redirects, and we’re right to respond wisely. Continue Reading …
Dear Seasoned Woman, it’s taken me awhile to know that I need you. Continue Reading …
Wherever you are on life’s timeline, begin now by praying for grace to finish strong and latch onto this wisdom . . . Continue Reading …
Daughters of Dorcas, stand up and be counted, by following this secret to encouraging younger women. Continue Reading …
The gospel is the great equalizer to bridge the gap for teen mentors. Continue Reading …
Infertility feels like a funeral for a woman’s dreams about motherhood. Learn how to shine a light in a loved one’s waiting journey. Continue Reading …
Simply passing a resource along can have a unexpectedly long-reaching impact. Continue Reading …
How one True Woman blogger was refreshed through Revive Our Hearts. Continue Reading …
Five suggestions for those who are ready to throw in the towel. Continue Reading …
Spiritual Mothering
Do you have a spiritual mother? Is your church preparing you to be a spiritual mother? Is the church or the culture telling the next generation of women what it means to be a true woman? Susan shares ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church.
Susan shares ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church. Continue Reading
Spiritual Mothering
Do you have a spiritual mother? Is your church preparing you to be a spiritual mother? Is the church or the culture telling the next generation of women what it means to be a true woman? Hear ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church.
Hear ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church. Continue Reading
Spiritual Mothering
Do you have a spiritual mother? Is your church preparing you to be a spiritual mother? Is the church or the culture telling the next generation of women what it means to be a true woman? Hear ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church.
Hear ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church. Continue Reading
Spiritual Mothering
Do you have a spiritual mother? Is your church preparing you to be a spiritual mother? Is the church or the culture telling the next generation of women what it means to be a true woman? Hear ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church.
Hear ideas for implementing a vibrant Titus 2 discipleship ministry in the local church. Continue Reading
Portrait of Friendship
God created women with the unique yearning to develop and nurture relationships. Explore some of the key ingredients of developing and maintaining friendships that last.
God created women with the unique yearning to develop and nurture relationships. Explore some of the key ingredients of friendships that last. Continue Reading
Message 1: A Woman Adorned and Adorning
“There shouldn’t be any such thing as a lone ranger Christian . . . or a lonely Christian.” Listen in as Nancy casts a vision for living out the beauty of the gospel together—with spiritual mothers, daughters, and sisters. But mostly, with Jesus. Because it’s His grace that trains us for godliness!
Listen in as Nancy casts a vision for living out the beauty of the gospel together—with spiritual mothers, daughters, and sisters. Continue Reading
Message 1 (Drama): The Storm
It’s hard to predict when life’s storms will erupt. But when older women take the time to build into the lives of younger, it can help you ride them out.
It’s hard to predict when life’s storms will erupt. But when older women take the time to build into the lives of younger, it can help you ride them out. Continue Reading
Message 2 (Drama): Wise Woman Bake Off
Living out sound doctrine isn’t just a dry diet of “do this, don’t do that.” It’s a rich mixture of behavior and relationship, that which is right and true and beautiful and good.
Living out sound doctrine isn’t just a dry diet of “do this, don’t do that.” It’s a rich mixture of behavior and relationship. Continue Reading
Message 2: Doctrine, You, and Titus 2
We all have a doctrine. A set of beliefs about God, ourselves, and the world. But is our doctrine sound? Healthy? Consider your own doctrine against the backdrop of Titus 2:1 as Mary challenges us to “hold fast to sound teaching.” After all, it’s right thinking that leads to right living.
We all have a doctrine. But is it healthy? Consider your own against the backdrop of Titus 2:1. After all, it’s right thinking that leads to right living. Continue Reading
Message 3 (Drama): Modeling
The stories of our faith aren’t meant for us alone. They’re to be shared and help those who come after us . . . even long after we’re gone.
The stories of our faith aren’t meant for us alone. They’re to be shared and help those who come after us . . . even long after we’re gone. Continue Reading
Message 3: Don't Give Up on That Modeling ...
“What does it feel like to be an old lady?” Lean in close as Susan Hunt shares four truths she wishes she’d known earlier as well as how to age in grace and dependence on God. See for yourself why she received a standing ovation at the end of this message.
Lean in close as Susan shares four truths she wishes she’d known earlier as well as how to age in grace and dependence on God. Continue Reading
Message 4 (Drama): Dorcas
Can you imagine the scene after the death of Dorcas, when the widows weep in front of Peter? It’s a picture of friendship and faith, don’t cha know.
Can you imagine the scene after the death of Dorcas, when the widows weep in front of Peter? It’s a picture of friendship and faith, don’t cha know. Continue Reading
Message 4: Grow Up & Step Up
What does older women training younger women have to do with creation, the fall, redemption, and transformation? Everything, says Susan Hunt. This Titus 2 model might not be the strategy you'd expect to advance the gospel, but this is God’s strategy. “Who but God would have thought of such a strategy,” Susan asks, “using ordinary, weak women to accomplish such ...
What does older women training younger women have to do with creation, the fall, redemption, and transformation? Everything, says Susan. Continue Reading
Message 5 (Drama): The Cooking Lesson
A cooking lesson leads to more than just mixing, measuring, and melting. In the process, trust is built, lives are blended, and faith starts to marinade.
A cooking lesson leads to more than just mixing, measuring, and melting. In the process, trust is built, lives are blended, and faith starts to marinade. Continue Reading
Message 5: Revival of Reverence
What does it mean to be deeply respectful, and why should this mark the believing woman? In this video, Mary explains why every moment is sacred for the believer and challenges us to “start a revival of reverence.”
Mary explains why every moment is sacred for the believer and challenges us to “start a revival of reverence.” Continue Reading
Message 6 (Drama): You Don't Say
Innuendos, gossip in the name of prayer, and even what we don’t say—it all can slander someone else’s reputation . . . and hurt our own at the same time.
Message 6: You Don't Say
You may not slander others verbally, but has your life slandered or misrepresented the character of God? That is the question Dámaris poses in this message. How might our interactions look different if our underlying desire was that others would think more of Jesus?
You may not slander others verbally, but has your life slandered or misrepresented the character of God? Continue Reading
Message 7 (Drama): Healing Indulgent Excess
Be encouraged through one woman’s story of healing to lean in to Jesus, the source of power we have to overcome anything.
Message 7: At Liberty
You may not abuse alcohol, but what can you not function without? What do you use in excess—that sometimes even enslaves you? Nancy asks us to examine the task masters in our lives and reminds us that we have been set free to serve a new Master now. May we all experience the freedom from bondage that Christ offers.
Nancy asks us to examine the task masters in our lives and reminds us that we have been set free to serve a new Master now. Continue Reading
Message 8 (Drama): Pretty Okay Café
Ever said something in anger that you regret? We’ve all been there. We just don’t want to live there.
Message 8: A "Sophron" State of Mind
Do you want more self-control? If so, Mary says we need to deal with the beliefs behind our behavior rather than merely focusing on fixing our behavior. “The prerequisite for right living is right thinking.” Let’s pursue “sophron” minds, as that is where self-control begins.
Do you want more self-control? If so, Mary says we need to deal with the beliefs behind our behavior. Continue Reading
Message 9 (Drama): Purity
Moving away from a pure lifestyle generally isn’t a one-moment decision. It’s often a slippery slope, filled with rationalization and justification.
Message 9: Passionate About Purity
If you’re struggling to be pure, this message will encourage you to stop “white knuckling it.” “It’s not something we ourselves can do,” Dannah says, “but Jesus can.” Be reminded of what purity is and isn’t, the “why” behind purity, how grace trains us for godliness, and how you can foster communities dominated by grace rather than rules.
Are you struggling to be pure? Dannah reminds us that we can’t be pure on our own . . . but Jesus can purify us. Continue Reading
Message (Drama) 10: The VBS Meeting
There are a lot of good things we women can commit to—including church things. But we need to consider the effect on our first priority of our families and our homes.
Message 10: Taste of Heaven
Do you prioritize and value your work at home? “I was fit for work in the church and at the office,” this mom shares, “but I was unfit for God's work for me in my home.” In this video you’ll be reminded that your desire to contribute to something bigger than yourself isn’t wrong; we just need to fix our ...
Do you prioritize and value your work at home? Be encouraged and challenged by Betsy’s testimony. Continue Reading
Message 11 (Drama): 'Til Death Do Us Part
What do you see as you look back over your marriage? How did you do in the ups and downs, the good and the bad? Are you loving each other well?
Message 11: Need Help Lovin' That Man
Whether you have a strong marriage or whether it’s hanging by a thread, Dannah’s transparent story will encourage you to go even deeper in your love for your husband. You won’t want to miss the surprise guest appearance as well.
Dannah’s transparent story will encourage you to go deeper in your love for your husband. Continue Reading
Message 12 (Drama): Submit or Resist
What does it mean to submit? Is it letting your husband lead, no matter what? Get a small peek into how the whole submission thing might work . . . or not.
Message 12: An Unexpected Blessing
Independence has always come easier for Robyn than submission. But seeing as submission is God’s idea, Robyn has sought to do just that. Lean in as she explains what godly submission is—and what it is not.
Is independence more your style than submission? Robyn can relate. Lean in as she shares what godly submission is—and is not. Continue Reading
Message 13 (Drama): Motherhood
Get real about fears, questions, and the importance about motherhood. The joys, how it changes and teaches us, and how our own moms have impacted our lives.
Message 13: Life-Givers in Training
Do you view children as a burden or a blessing? Robyn shows from Psalm 127 that children are delightful gifts from God—as well as valuable assets. Be inspired by this mom of ten to enjoy children as God does, and to know that your investment in them is worth every minute.
This mom of ten offers an inspiring message from Psalm 127 reminding us that children are valuable assets and delightful gifts from God. Continue Reading
Message 14 (Drama): The Good Part
Getting a meal ready for the Master would have been no easy task. But what was more important? A perfect platter of figs or listening to Him? Don’t miss out on the good part.
Message 14: Instruments of Grace
Do you consider kindness weak and wimpy . . . or powerful enough to move mountains? In this message, Nancy shares the surprising power of this overlooked virtue. She also wraps up the conference by discussing what is at stake if we don’t practice Titus 2 life-to-life discipleship.
Do you consider kindness wimpy . . . or powerful enough to move mountains? Learn about the surprising power of kindness. Continue Reading
Portrait of a Godly Father
From a daughter's heart, Nancy shares some personal glimpses from her father's life. Continue Reading
Leaving a Godly Legacy
One day we will give account to God for the spiritual condition of the next generation. Continue Reading
Donna Otto's Mottos
Poignant quotes to live by from Donna Otto that will make you think, and will make you a success if you will live by them! Continue Reading
Topics in the Book of Proverbs
Practical advice for everyday living from God's Word. Continue Reading
True Woman Manifesto
If you see biblical womanhood as a gift from God, and agree with this True Woman Manifesto, sign it at www.TrueWoman.com. Continue Reading
The Instruction of a Father
Discover the twelve lasting lessons that Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth learned as a young girl from her father. Continue Reading
Nurturing Others' Children
There is a practical application for childless women—namely, to make room for children. Continue Reading
Take the Sunshine with You to Work
If you are in a negative communication climate at work, God may use you to change the climate. Continue Reading
100 Conversation Starters for Younger Women
We can learn a great deal from other women simply by asking good questions about what God has done in their lives and what they have learned over the years. Continue Reading
Adorned: Living Out the Beauty of the Gospel
For resources to lead your Adorned study. Continue Reading
Living Life Together: A Four-Week Jumpstart Guide to ...
In this guide, we’ve gathered practical wisdom and ideas from those who have experienced life-on-life relationships. Continue Reading