Man Up!

For my own mental and spiritual health, I gave up prime time TV years ago. But when I ran across an article touting “A New Generation of TV Wimps,” I had to check it out. It’s hard not to notice a cultural shift in the way men are portrayed these days. We’ve come a long way since men like my Grandmother’s hero, Matt Dillon (the marshal from Gunsmoke), who protected Dodge from any ne’er-do-well.

In previous generations, the common male stereotypes in the media were wise (Father Knows Best), dependable (“Pa” from Little House on the Prairie), and provided strong leadership (Captain Jean-Luc Picard who could tackle any mission in space).

According to the article I read there are at least a half-dozen sitcoms coming this fall that center on lead male characters struggling with the changing dynamics of men as they relate to the successful women surrounding them. According to one executive producer, “Manliness is under assault.” Apparently today’s men in the media are seen as inept buffoons and fearful wimps in need of mothers. The accomplished women they’ve married (for some unknown reason) put up with these immature sluggards and the conflicts which ensue from this pairing are the basis for entertainment.

If art reflects culture, then we’re in need of a True Man Revolution. If art shapes culture, then we’re in need of some men exhibiting true masculinity to counter what Hollywood is pumping out.

Why does this matter? God has purpose in His creation of male and female. He didn’t create genderless beings. Masculinity is tied to God’s ordained role and responsibility for men. When masculinity is denigrated, it mocks God’s purpose in man’s creation.

“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them” (Gen. 1:27).

So what can you and I do? I may not be able to produce a powerful media piece which will counteract the damage of today’s media trends, but here are a few things I can do:

  • Intentionally encourage the men around me as I see them striving to live out biblical manhood in a culture that views men as a joke.
  • Determine to be a change-agent in female conversations when man-bashing starts by reversing the negative and encouraging women to be supportive of their man.
  • Never demean men (husbands, sons, brothers, or co-workers) privately or publicly!
  • Provide masculine role models for your sons or young men in your sphere of influence.
  • Read good resources which promote biblical manhood and womanhood. Educate yourself in order to protect your heart and mind from the culture’s relentless unisex noise. (I’m thankful for the work being done by groups like The Council on Biblical Womanhood and Manhood as well as resources such as: A Guide to Biblical Manhood and What’s the Difference? which promote biblical masculinity.)

These are just a few suggestions. I’d love to hear from you. What do you do to promote biblical manhood? And why do you think manliness is under assault?

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Kimberly Wagner

Kimberly Wagner

Kimberly Wagner’s passion is Christ, and she desires to ignite women's pursuit of God's glory. She's the author of Fierce Women, and is a frequent guest on the Revive Our Hearts radio program, as well as a regular contributor to the True Woman blog. She enjoys sharing with women and hearing from them about what God is doing in their lives.

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