The wicked flee when no one is pursuing them, but the righteous are as bold as a lion. Proverbs 28:1
Occasionally over the years, our family has gone out to eat at a cafeteria. This probably sounds awful, but when our daughters were small, we made up the “judging game.” As we stood in the line that wound around, we gave people ahead of us grades based on their choices. Whole-wheat bread earned the person an “A.” Asparagus got him an “A+,” although we felt sorry for the guy. French silk pie got a “D.” Two desserts and the customer had to go back one full grade.
We did this quietly, of course. No one besides us ever knew we were doing such a rude and judgmental thing!
Today’s text is like sliding your tray down the stainless-steel rails at Luby’s or Morrison’s or whatever the cafeteria in your town is called—looking over a bunch of choices.
Workaholism (v. 1). Why do you push so hard? Is it because you really have that much to do, or are you afraid to fail? Why? Are you seeking someone’s approval? Whose? Be a lion. Know who you are and let your work serve you, not the other way around. Leadership (v. 2). If you have a family, you’re the only dad they have. If you don’t be the dad, who will? It’s your choice: pay attention and lovingly take charge or acquiesce to complete chaos.
Tenderness (v. 3). Don’t forget the “little” people in your life—the waitress, the neighbor boy, the clerk, that kid of yours who is so different from you. If you ignore them, you’ll miss an opportunity to bless them.
Consistency (vv. 4, 7). Since your children’s obedience is so important to you, perhaps you ought to double-check the speedometer the next time they’re riding with you. Since cleaning their rooms is one of your favorite whipping posts, let’s take a little tour of your garage.
Fairness (v. 5). The measure you use to issue justice and grace in your home will be used against you. Jesus taught us to pray, “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Mt 6:12; emphasis added).
Stewardship (vv. 6, 8). Although little in the way of financial commission is paid out for right living, earning a piece of anything dishonestly will eventually make you sick to your stomach.
Which of these will you put on your cafeteria tray today? By the way, if you’re giving out grades, these are all good for you. Give them “A+’s”—they’re all better than fried okra.