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Notes of encouragement for Nancy and tributes to Robert
Robert was the Christian Father/Friend/Mentor I would have loved to have. His manner of speaking and what he had to say were always very meaningful and inspiring. I can only imagine what his passing will mean in your life Nancy, although we know he is with our Lord and healthy and very happy. I'm praying for you and his many friends in this time of transition.
I honestly was not familiar with this man or Nancy, until last night. My husband had heard of his marriage to Nancy and he used to listen to her on the radio on his way to work. He then realized that Robert had passed away on January 10. We began with one video, then another, and another, and I am continuing to listen to more this morning. My husband and I are nobody well known, but, I had cancer and felt just like his first wife, that it was to live is Christ and to die is gain. I lived. Now, my husband and I are involved each week with 14 grandchildren telling them about Jesus. That’s the best investment of our time that we can give. Robert and Nancy’s story is one that gives us hope and encouragement and I am thankful. I thought about Nancy having a family here on earth to love and support her, God’s provision, and it’s beautiful. I’m so sorry for his families’ loss, but, it is a picture of a life well spent and now, eternity with Christ. May the Lord continue to bless each of you and know the Lord is still using you to further the Kingdom.
I pray that the Lord will comfort the hearts of this family, and that the peace which surpasses all understanding will bring consolation to the deep human pain that is felt in moments like these. Robert has finished his race and is now in the presence of the Lord. His crown has been prepared for him. I bless his family in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Rich memories of Robert ... wonderful Sunday School classes, and building a deck at a Habitat house together, which Robert insisted had to be built using a herringbone pattern in the floor. Not kidding. Only Robert would have insisted on a detail like that. Rest in peace, Robert. And peace to Nancy and all of the other wonderful family members.
Dear Nancy, You don't know me but you have blessed me in my life more than you could ever imagine. Even though I was a Christian there was just something about you that drew me closer to the Lord. When you see trust, obedience, faithfulness, commitment, joy, kindness, perseverance, and pure loveliness displayed in someone, it makes you stop and take notice. I was following you and listening to Revive Our Hearts and reading your book "Lies Women Believe" and you were a lifeline to me when I needed a Godly female mentor in my life. Even though you are just a few years older than me- you had the wisdom of the Lord on your side and I desperately needed it. When you fell in love and married Robert I felt so happy for you! Not because you hadn't been a blessed woman before God brought him to you as your husband, but because it was yet another amazing display of the Lord's generosity and goodness. He wanted to bless you with the kind of joy that one can only experience in marriage. I enjoyed learning about you and Robert and your precious relationship through podcasts, video's and social media. And when I saw that Robert was having health struggles I started praying for him and both of you. Sometimes the Lord was waking me up in the early hours of the morning to pray. I was convinced the Lord would heal Robert of the pneumonia and felt brokenhearted for you when He chose to heal him in His way and bring Robert home. I felt such a weight of grief while Robert was suffering and I knew you were by his side trusting the Lord with your whole heart and soul- like you have taught women like me to do every single day and yet I felt angry at the Lord's decision. It was not what I would have chosen for Robert or for you. I had a couple of rough days where my own husband probably wondered why I was so discouraged and sad about a man and woman I have never met. In my prayers I argued with God and asked how could He take Robert and leave you without him just as you are entering into your Golden years together. Why would He do that? Why Robert, why you? One thought led to another until I thought "Lord you barely gave them any time together- they have hardly even been married for very long- it's just not fair. There are so many miserable and unhappy and ungodly marriages and yet they remain......why???" I didn't hear an audible voice but I did feel a prompting from the Holy Spirit. "Look up how long they have been married on Google." When I looked up how long you and Robert have been married I was shocked. In my mind it had only been a few years- maybe 3 or 4 years. When I saw that the Lord had given you 10 years together before He called Robert home I suddenly felt a profound sense of peace sitting alongside my grief for your loss. I thought...."Wow Lord, you gave them a decade! Nancy hadn't even expected anything from you in regards to a husband- she had dedicated her life to You ,but in Your kindness You saw fit to give Nancy an earthly love of her life. And you gave her an entire decade! You are truly good Lord. I would have asked for more but You have a purpose and a reason for everything that You do and we can trust You." Nancy my prayer for you as you walk through this journey of grief and loss is that God surrounds you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. I pray that He provides everything you need and abundantly more. I pray that you know how loved you are by the Lord and by others. I want to thank you for all of the ways you have blessed my life over the years and I pray for God's richest blessings in your life in the years to come. Love and peace from your online friend- Christine
Feeling sadness and grief for your loss, Nancy - prayers continue for you Dear Sister asking for God's peace and comfort. You are loved and appreciated. Rejoicing for Heaven's gain - praising God that Robert is home with his Savior and Lord Jesus Christ! May your memories be sweet until you meet again!
Dear Nancy, You continue to be in my prayers as you walk through this valley of the shadow of death. It is a walk, not a sprint, yet the Lord is with you. You have been an inspiration and guide to women as a godly single woman, then a godly wife, and now you will show us how to be a godly widow. May the Lord give you strength at this busy time at ROH, as you grieve the loss of Robert.
Querida Nancy: Durante ya algunos años llegue a este hermoso ministerio con dolor, afliccion y conflictos que tenia en mi vida personal en mi matrimonio y conocer Aviva nuestros corazones y conocerte a ti fue la respuesta de Dios en mi vida he aprendido mucho y sobre todo he visto la mano de Dios en mi vida. Gracias por la labor que haces por enseñarnos de la palabra y sobre todo que podemos ver reflejado a Cristo en tu vida. Que Dios de consuelo y paz a tu vida por la partida de Robert no imagino tu dolor, pero me uno en oración por ti y por las hijas de Robert. Te mando un abrazo Infinitas gracias por tu vida Nancy y por lo que con el paso de los años has enseñado a muchas mujeres como yo que hemos llegado a Cristo cansadas. Gracias Nancy
Dios te beniga, Nancy y te fortalezca en estos momentos dificiles para tí, donde tu amado Robert a partido a la presencia de nuestro Dios, puedo imaginar su rostro al encontrarse con su padre celestial a quien tanto le sirvió en esta tierra. Nancy, te escribo desde Honduras, escucho tus podcast desde hace mucho tiempo y me han animado a seguir en este caminar con Cristo, quiero aprovehar esta oportunidad para decirte que somos miles de personas orando por tu vida, que te admiramos por tu amor a Cristo y que en este momento él sea tu fortaleza. Los cristianos somos consientes de cual es nuestro destino luego de dejar este cuerpo mortal, y a pesar del dolor de la separción pues sabemos que la muerte también es una bendición de nuestro amoroso Padre Celestial.
Ánimo Nancy. Dios dice en su palabra que los hermanos en Cristo se alegran con los que se alegran y lloran con los que lloran. Doy gracias a Dios por tu vida, pues toda ella es un testimonio para la Gloria de Dios. Buena cierva y fiel has sido, al igual que tú amado esposo Robert. Orare por tí pidiendo fortaleza, pero si en algún momento la tristeza te gana... sé que tú primer y único refugio será el Señor. Ánimo y un fuerte abrazo a tu corazón, sabiendo que "el cielo gobierna"
The Lord bless and keep you. The Lord make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you. The Lord turn His face toward you and give you peace.
Dear Nancy (& you are very dear), My heart was with you as you have gone through this latest chapter of life, not of your choosing but penned by the Blessed Author. Many prayers were given for you and Robert. And yet as I prayed for you and Robert through this, I knew it’s the Father’s will that you would willingly bow to this time as well. Please know that even through this trial you have shown us how to love our husbands better than ever and how to remain faithful to our God. May the “God of all comfort” carry you through all your days. May His Word comfort and guide you and bring peace to your soul. I love you in the Lord, my sister and friend from afar.
Mi deseo es que El Señor consuele el corazón de Nancy, que llene el vacío que deja su esposo.
Almighty God, Thank you for Robert's life. You blessed his family with a wonderful husband, father and grandfather. You blessed so many others through his wisdom and friendship, business integrity and brilliance. Then Father, you blessed Nancy with this wonderful man. Thank you for giving her Robert. We were all blessed! For your glory alone and with a grateful heart, we say God Reigns Heaven Rules We can trust You to write our story
I have followed your ministry for awhile now and your love with Robert has truly been inspiring. I have been so encouraged by your life and love for Jesus. Your teachings have helped me stay the path of righteousness almost weekly. I am grateful for your marriage and I know your heart is hurting but your faith in the midst of the trials is what shines brighter. May your days be filled with the Spirit continually walking and encouraging you as this void will be felt so deeply. Robert seemed like a wonderful man of God and what a blessing to read his obituary. I’m excited to read his books. God bless you and all your family.
Dear Nancy, My sincere condolences. I join you in thanksgiving to the Lord, that Robert finished well his earthly pilgrimage and is now rejoicing in the Lord’s rest. My thoughts and prayers go to you and the entire family. May the Lord Jesus fill your heart with his unshakable peace and comfort you on every side.
Nancy, for so many years, your teachings have encouraged me, taught me and led me to a better understanding and relationship with Father God. I can only imagine your dear Robert being so proud of your accomplishments and that special Proverbs 31 Woman you were in his life and lives of many. Even now, in time of pain and sorrow you lead us in fellowship with God as you process Robert’s transition to our heavenly home. I pray The Holy Spirit wraps you in ever lasting peace and even joy during this time. Thank you for sharing your teachings and God’s love and grace with all of us as God continues to write your story. Thank you for your constant reminder that no matter what we face, “Heaven Rules”. I hope you are constantly reminded of how loved you are by God, Robert your friends, familiy and all those you have discipled. May Father God continue to strengthen you, guide, protect and Bless you All the years of your beautiful life.
Nancy, for so many years, your teachings have encouraged me, taught me and led me to a better understanding and relationship with Father God. I can only imagine your dear Robert being so proud of your accomplishments and that special Proverbs 31 Woman you were in his life and lives of many. Even now, in time of pain and sorrow you lead us in fellowship with God as you process Robert’s transition to our heavenly home. I pray The Holy Spirit wraps you in ever lasting peace and even joy during this time. Thank you for sharing your teachings and God’s love and grace with all of us as God continues to write your story. Thank you for your constant reminder that no matter what we face, “Heaven Rules”. I hope you are constantly reminded of how loved you are by God, Robert your friends, familiy and all those you have discipled. May Father God continue to strengthen you, guide, protect and Bless you All the years of your beautiful life.
Dear Nancy, sorry for your loss but joyful knowing you and Robert will one day be eternally reunited in Heaven. I listen to your Revive Our Hearts program every day and am so thankful for the encouragement you give me and so many others. Will miss hearing Roberts rich baritone voice as he would occasionally speak to you on your program. Praying for you and Roberts family. Gods Blessing.
My heart grieves with you Nancy. God was so very good to you and Robert. He gave you 10 wonderful years to love each other in a way that most never get to experience. Hold your memories close. I sincerely pray that God will blanket you with His loving kindness and mercy in the days ahead. Heaven does indeed rule!