Eaten Up with Worry

I recently attended a girls’ ministry forum where we spent the weekend talking about how to teach young women to love and live like Jesus. One of the highlights for me was a team of child psychologists who have been offering Christian counseling to young people for several decades.

During a Q and A session with the duo, someone asked what problem they are seeing young women dealing with the most often in clinic. I expected to hear horror stories of sexual abuse, eating disorders, or thoughts of suicide. Instead, the psychologists looked at each other and said together, “anxiety.”

They went on to explain that their clinic has been inundated in recent years with young people who are so consumed with worry that they can barely handle the strain of their day-to-day life. And, in general, their anxious clients aren’t victims of abuse or sufferers of post-traumatic stress who have reason to be antsy. By in large, they are seeing Christian kids from solid families who are eaten up with worry.

I’m not a Christian counselor, but I spend much of my free time with teenage girls. Of the small group of girls who attend the youth group where I volunteer, I can think of several with chronic stomach aches because of nerves, one who has panic attacks on a regular basis, and many who constantly wrestle with fear and doubt that they can neither explain or conquer. On LiesYoungWomenBelieve.com, we receive daily confessions from girls who tell us that everyone thinks they have their act together, but that they wrestle with a constant sense of fear and worry. The bottom line is that girls are struggling, and I think I know why—because we are struggling, too. Sometimes it seems that worry and anxiousness have become our national pastime. Certainly there is much to be troubled about, but for Christians, is constant worry acceptable?

Pastor John Piper recently tweeted about Jesus’ arguments against anxiety. His list provides the answers to our anxiousness in a way that is both clear and helpful. Check it out:

1. Life is more than food and the body more than clothing (Matt. 6:25).

2. God feeds the birds, and you are more valuable than they are (Matt. 6:26).

3. It’s pointless. It adds not one hour to your life (Matt. 6:27).

4. God clothes ephemeral grass. He will clothe eternal you (Matt. 6:28-30).

5. Unbelievers are anxious about stuff and you’re not an unbeliever (Matt. 6:32a).

6. Your Father knows you need all these things you’re anxious about (Matt. 6:32b).

7. When you seek first God’s kingdom and righteousness, what you need is added to you (Matt. 6:33).

8. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. Tomorrow’s trouble stays there (Matt. 6:34).

Do your daughters know all of the reasons God gives in His Word not to be anxious? I want to encourage you to be intentional about teaching her His Truth in this area.

Here’s an even tougher admonition. I want to encourage you to be intentional about allowing God’s Truth about anxiousness to transform your heart. Certainly life, in general, offers plenty of valid reasons to get worked up. Motherhood creates another layer of worry. But God’s Word is clear; anxiety is for those who don’t rest in the hand of the Living God. It won’t help you and it won’t help your teenage girl.

How do we begin the process of unloading the anxiousness that has woven its way into our hearts, minds, and children? Philippians 4:6 outlines an important first step: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.”

Let’s take that step together right now.

Dear Jesus, We confess to you that we are often anxious even though your Word tells us not to be. Please forgive us for the times when our hope is clearly not in You. Lord, we are also aware that worry is impacting our children. Help us to disciple them away from anxiety and toward trusting You more and more. Amen.

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Erin Davis

Erin Davis

Erin Davis is a popular author, blogger, and speaker who loves to see women of all ages run to the deep well of God’s Word. She is the author of many books and Bible studies including Connected, Beautiful Encounters, and the My Name Is Erin series. Erin also has the privilege of serving women in her local church as the women’s ministry director. When she’s not writing, you can find Erin chasing chickens and children on her small farm in the Midwest.

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